How Long to Wait before Sex

After the first date is a fact one of the first things that come to our minds is "How long to wait before sex?" Some women are up to having sex on the first date while others will definitely make you wait, sometimes for a really long time. Generally, how long you will have to wait depends on both how smooth you are and of course how horny the woman is. Probably you could use as an indicator the time it took you to make sex with your ex.

Though it sounds preposterous to many of us, some women do want to wait until they are married. In many religions waiting until marriage to lose virginity is a must. So you might come upon on a woman that will not have sex with you unless you marry her. Well, there is a plus side and that is you will get to have sex with a virgin. And let's admit it, most of us men dream of giving a woman her very first sexual experience.

Unfortunately for us, women are quite picky. On top of that some of them can wait months before having sex again. So combine these two factors and you may get a woman that makes you wait only to "test your love". 

Waiting a few more dates to have sex with a woman you really like is perfectly OK. However, if the woman makes you wait too long and you are not happy with this, I would just break up. She would most probably think that you are breaking up because of sex. And she would be right. What women often fail to understand is that it is not that all you want from her is sex; it is just that you have the need for sex.

Another problem with waiting too long is that when you haven't had sex for a long time any sex is good. Even the worst sex will feel good at first but after a while you will just stop enjoying it.

So how long should you wait before having sex with a new partner?

Probably a good rule of thumb is to wait about two months. This is enough time to get to know each other and see if the relationship is going to last.

Of course you might have sex on the third date too, but then it will be hard to tell whether something will come of it. Especially if you got drunk a couple of times at a loud bar and then had sex at home. Most of the cases your first time will be also your last. On the other hand, if you had real conversations the first few dates and learned a little bit more about each other, the chances are you even get a little more action.

As for sex on the first date, generally that means that you will not get anymore sex afterwards. Usually sex on the first date is out of lust and you should be surprised if get a call for another date at all.

Sometimes, she will give you a short "preview" (a hand job or allowing you to feel her up) on the very first date. We have all had such dates but the truth is this type of sex rarely lasts. She is horny indeed but not that horny to go all the way.

To summarize, your best bet would be to wait for a period of time. Take your time, all the time you need. Enjoy her company, take it slow and you will get lucky. Besides, if you build up excitement, you will be rewarded with a great release.